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 Most people find they have at least one trusted person to talk to at work. This relationship often goes beyond basic workplace interactions, offering many benefits that can improve job satisfaction, productivity, and overall workplace harmony.

A trusted friend at work can make the daily grind more enjoyable and lessen stress and overwhelm on the job. Knowing that someone genuinely cares about your well-being can significantly affect how you feel about your job. This sense of connection and support can lead to higher job satisfaction and help you look forward to coming to work each day.

The impact of having a friend at work extends beyond the professional day. This relationship can enhance your overall well-being by improving your work-life balance and helping you to talk through problems that would otherwise contribute to unhappiness and workplace anxiety. The emotional and psychological benefits of friendship, such as increased happiness and reduced stress, can improve your overall quality of life in a meaningful way. 

Emotional Support and Stress Relief

Workplace stress is a common challenge in any job. Having a trusted friend at work provides an outlet for sharing concerns, venting frustrations, and seeking advice from someone who knows what you mean. This emotional support can help reduce stress levels, prevent burnout, and improve mental health while supporting your efforts to correct problems and overcome challenges.

Better Communication and Collaboration

Having a trusted friend at work supports more open and honest communication, making it easier to share ideas and creating a collaborative team or workplace. For those who are uncomfortable speaking up and sharing creative ideas, having a friend to support you is invaluable.

Professional Growth and Development

A dependable friend at work can also contribute to professional growth and development. Friends often serve as sounding boards, offering valuable feedback and different perspectives to help you improve your skills and advance your career. They can provide honest advice, support your professional aspirations, and celebrate your achievements, contributing to overall career satisfaction and success.

Increased Productivity

A positive and supportive work friendship can boost productivity and motivation. Encouraging each other, celebrating successes, and tackling challenges with friends can create a positive and engaged work environment. Having someone who believes in you and your abilities can inspire you to perform at your best and stay motivated, even during difficult times.

Increased Workplace Retention

Employees with strong social connections at work are more likely to stay with their employer and less likely to look for another job. The sense of belonging and community from having a reliable friend at work may increase job retention and reduce turnover. This stability benefits employees and employers, leading to a more positive workplace culture.

Having a friend at work you can talk to and trust is a gift you can give to yourself. Supporting team-building interactions and promoting times to socialize and get to know each other are great places to start. 

In today’s remote or hybrid work world, it can be easy to fall into a routine that includes a lot of time on your own. While it is true that you have back-to-back Zoom meetings throughout the day, you may have very limited actual fun interaction with your friends.

Most people have a combination of friends or friend groups. Depending on the individual, these groups of friends can be from:

• Childhood and early school years
• College
• Special groups, clubs, or teams
• People who have similar hobbies or interests
• Church or other religious organizations
• Past jobs or careers
• Current jobs or careers
• Neighbors

Of course, there can be other groups as well. Depending on where you live, friend groups can overlap or be completely separate. Regardless of how interconnected your friends may be, finding time to spend together is an effective way to boost your mental health and wellness. It can also positively impact your physical health.

A Sense of Camaraderie and Belonging

As humans, we are born with a need to have a sense of belonging. While humans can and do need time on their own, knowing there is a friend there to help out, speak with, or to share achievements and challenges, helps to create this sense of belonging.

When we feel that sense of connection with another person, we feel more confident. In addition, having a friend tends to help people feel an increase in their sense of self-esteem, and positive friends who share how important the friendship is to them help us to see ourselves as positive influencers in the lives of others.

Helps with Stress Management

A good friend is someone you can talk to about difficult times in life. This could be a problem at work, the breakup of a relationship, or even challenges with the kids. Friends are a sounding board and provide emotional support to help you work through solutions or to get problems out and into the open.

Friends do not need to solve the problem or provide therapy; they just need to be there to provide encouragement, a listening ear, and support you in moving forward, celebrating your success, or helping you to talk through options.

Doing activities with friends, including walking, hiking, hitting the gym, taking a yoga class, or joining a baseball team, also help us to stay physically active. People who work out or do regular physical activity with a friend are more likely to keep up the habit and see better results than those who do these things independently.

Friendship is also a key factor in helping to reduce feelings of being alone. Individuals that regularly spend time with their friends face-to-face, online, or by phone are less likely to develop anxiety and depression and to report higher satisfaction levels in their lives.

Most people have experienced increasing difficulty in making friends as we age. As children, we seem to be able to make friends everywhere we go, and we have an ability to instantly bond and find things in common with others. Over time, and with an increasing focus on the “adult” parts of life, it can seem as if friendships fade into the past, and the ability to meet and connect with new people outside of your spouse or partner and family can seem challenging and much more work than it used to be.

The reality is that the platonic interactions between friends is an important part of mental health and wellness. Having someone to talk to who is not a spouse, partner, or family member but is still a part of your world is important. Without friends, there can be increased feelings of loss, loneliness, isolation, and loss of connection with a part of your life.

Being A Friend

One of the amazing things about true friendship is that it is a give-and-take relationship. To have a friend, you must also be a friend, which means you are kind, compassionate, and caring about another person. Whether you are friends from childhood, college, or from raising your kids together or living in the same neighborhood, you have a sense of shared experiences, culture, and connection. You may have shared goals and dreams, hobbies and interests, or areas of expertise. Many friends also have areas of diversity, allowing you to support each other and provide insight from your unique perspective.

Being a friend means stepping out of your comfort zone and supporting their goals and dreams, all from a very altruistic point of view. Friends choose to be friends and choose to continue to work on the friendship simply because the relationship is important to them both.

Working at Friendship

Effective, positive, supportive, and ongoing relationships take time and work. This is true for our relationships with partners and spouses, and it is also true for lasting relationships with friends.

Working at friendship means finding time to communicate, interact, and stay in touch with what is going on in each other’s lives. It may not mean the same level of daily interaction as you experienced in childhood friendships, but it means making an effort to stay in a relationship that is both enjoyable and satisfying and that allows you have those positive interactions we all need in our lives.