When You Know Better – You Do Better by Cindy Stradling CSL, CPC

The Importance Of Lifelong Learning To Live Your Best Life

Most of us can look back at past decisions and wish we knew then what we know now. This is a sign of growth, not failure.

Maya Angelou said, “Do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better”. These simple words carry profound wisdom that reminds us that lifelong learning is not just a path to knowledge. It is a path to a more meaningful, fulfilling life.

Why Lifelong Learning Matters

Personal growth does not end with school, a career milestone, or a birthday. As life shifts, so do our challenges, responsibilities, and the tools we need to meet them. Lifelong learning is the ongoing process of reflecting, adapting, and seeking out new information that helps us navigate the world with more intention.

Making a commitment to learning opens the door to:

• Developing greater self-awareness and emotional intelligence
• Making healthier, more aligned decisions
• Building resilience and adaptability in times of change
• Creating space for purpose and self-discovery

The more that we learn about ourselves, our relationships, and the world, the more empowered we become to live in a way that reflects our values and supports our well-being.

What This Looks Like in Practice

You do not need to enroll in a course or read a self-help book every week, although very beneficial options. Lifelong learning also happens in small, meaningful moments:

• Trying a new approach to stress management
• Listening intently during a conversation
• Recognizing the need for and setting a boundary
• Asking for help
• Learning from your mistakes

These choices may seem small, but they are powerful. When you apply a new understanding to your life, you are doing better because you know better.

Lifelong learning can also include reflecting on patterns, exploring your personal history, learning to unlearn what no longer serves you, or staying curious in situations where it might be easier to shut down. Every step you take in awareness is a step forward.

Remember to Give Yourself Grace

Not knowing something does not mean that you have failed. It simply means that you have more to learn. As you grow and gather new tools, it is important to give yourself the same compassion that you would offer a loved one.

There is no timeline or finish line when it comes to learning. Some lessons come easily while others arrive much more slowly. The important thing is that you stay open, curious, and engaged in the world around you.